Whether it’s not having enough or having too much, spending frivolously or investing foolishly, not saving enough or something else altogether, money can be the root of relationship woes sometimes. Here are some specific talking points to help you have a fruitful discussion with your partner.
WHAT’S YOUR MONEY STYLE?
My husband and I took a quiz before we got married and found out we're both "all in allies" meaning, what's yours is mine, what's mine is yours, and we split everything. Do you and your partner have different money styles?
DEPENDING ON YOUR MONEY STYLE, DO YOU HAVE SPENDING LIMITS?
This is definitely more relevant/important if you’re sharing finances, but I think it’s still a worthwhile conversation to have together!
WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON BUDGETING?
This can really vary per couple (+ per person!), so as icky as it might feel if you’re not a numbers kinda gal, it can be pretty impactful for your financial future together.
HOW OFTEN, IF AT ALL, SHOULD WE CHECK-IN WITH EACH OTHER FINANCIALLY, AND WHEN?
It’s super important to be on the same page here, friends. Misunderstood, unmet, or uncommunicated expectations can KILL relationships, which is really just so sad!
WHAT ARE YOUR OWN FAVORITE AND GO-TO FINANCIAL RESOURCES?
This is a great way to come together at the end of the conversation and find mutual things to bond over.